Relationships End With Lies | Dhadrian Wale

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Relationships End With Lies Relationships Come To An End Because Of Lies. Honesty Is The Foundation Of Any Meaningful Connection. When Trust Is Broken Through Deception, The Bond Between People Weakens And Eventually Breaks

Relationships End With Lies — A Sikh Perspective

Lies are like cracks in a vessel — they may seem small at first, but over time they weaken the entire structure. In relationships, honesty is the foundation of trust, and when truth is replaced by deceit, even the deepest bonds begin to crumble. Whether it’s between partners, friends, or family, lies break the sacred thread of connection that holds hearts together.

From a Sikh Gurmat (spiritual wisdom) perspective, truth (Sat) is not just a moral value — it is a divine attribute. Guru Nanak Dev Ji opens the Japji Sahib with the affirmation:
"Sat Naam" — Truth is His Name.
This highlights that living truthfully is a form of spiritual living. When we lie to someone, we also move away from the Divine light within ourselves.

Sikh teachings strongly discourage deceit. Guru Granth Sahib says:
“Kapat chhodey sach samaleh” — Abandon deceit and dwell in truth. (SGGS, Ang 1093)
To lie in a relationship is to act from ego (haumai) — the very force that separates us from love and God. Lies may seem like a shield to avoid conflict or judgment, but in reality, they become barriers to authentic connection.

In meditation and daily living, Sikhs are taught to cultivate Sat Santokh (truth and contentment), not just as ideals, but as the way to peaceful living. Honest communication, even when difficult, preserves dignity and trust. Lies, on the other hand, create duality (dooja bhaav) — a state of separation that leads to pain.

In summary:
Relationships do not break from hardship alone — they break when truth is lost. A relationship rooted in truth may face storms, but it stands strong. One built on lies is already hollow. Sikh wisdom reminds us: to live in truth is to live in love — both with others and with the Divine.

"Sachhu orai sabh ko upar sach aachaar" — Truth is above all, but higher still is truthful living. (Guru Nanak Dev Ji, SGGS Ang 62)

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